5 Reasons why Adulting with ADHD is built different

 

1. ADHD-Friendly Tools That Actually Work

Made for your brain - simple, doable, effective.

 

2. Real Support From Someone Who Gets It

No judgment. No shame. Just someone who speaks your language.

 

3. Zero Fluff - Only What Works in Real Life

If it’s in here, it’s because it helps you get sh*t done & feel better.

 

4. Real Science, Not Pop-Psychology

Finally understand your brain so you can stop fighting yourself (& the world).

 

5. Build a Life That Fits You 

No more “try harder” BS. Learn to thrive with the brain you've got.

 
Let's do this!

I'll give you a powerful toolkit to help you 

THRIVE with ADHD so that you can finally 

feel better & get sh*t done

 

  • Courses & Workshops with science backed tools
  • Workbooks to apply what you're learning
  • Group Coaching to get support when you need it

 

It's all you need & more to finally get clarity, increase your self-confidence & take control of your life. 

Allllll at a gloriously generous price. 

 

It's time to do things the ADHD way.

A smarter, kinder, better way of living !

Emotional Regulation for Adults with ADHD

If you’re tired of spiralling, snapping, shutting down or feeling like your emotions run the show - this course will change everything.

Inside, you’ll learn why ADHDers struggle with managing their emotions & how to actually regulate your emotions (aka calm down) using simple, science-backed tools that actually work for ADHD brains.

This is the stuff we should have learned in school - practical, ADHD-friendly tools you can use in real life when the irritation hits, when the overwhelm spikes, or when everything feels “too much.”

If you want calmer days, gentler reactions & way less emotional chaos… you’re going to love this.

Priced at $497.00

WTF is ADHD

If you’ve ever wondered “Why am I like this?” or felt broken, lazy or inconsistent - this course will be a breath of fresh air.


Inside, you’ll finally understand how your ADHD brain works, why it works this way & what that means for your motivation, focus, emotions, energy & everyday life.

You’ll learn the ADHD basics like - how dopamine works, why executive function feels so hard & the real reasons behind procrastination, forgetfulness and overwhelm.

Most importantly, you’ll discover simple, practical ways to work with your brain (not against it) so life feels easier, lighter & way less like a constant uphill battle.

Priced at $197.00

Self-coaching to work with your ADHD brain

Coaching changed my life & the ability to self-coach is the greatest tool we have as adults with ADHD.

By learning how to coach ourselves we are able to:

  •  Change what we think
  •  Change how we feel
  •  Change what we do & don’t do

… Basically change our entire lives!

I often wonder why I had to learn trigonometry at school. Because not once in my adult life has that ever come in handy. But this… THIS RIGHT HERE is the secret to the universe. And I wish we were taught it in schools!

Priced at $297.00

How to Heal from & Prevent ADHD Burnout

If you’ve been running on fumes, forcing yourself to “keep up,” or wondering why you can’t just push through like everyone else… this course is your reset button.

Inside, you’ll learn why ADHDers burn out so easily (hint: it’s not your fault), how to plug the holes in your energy bucket & what it actually takes to rebuild your mental, emotional & physical reserves.

 

This isn’t about doing more - it’s about finally giving your sparkly brain what it needs to function, thrive & feel good.

If you’re tired of being tired… this is where your recovery begins. 

Priced at $147.00

Improving Relationships

Whether it’s your partner, family, or coworkers - relationships can feel hard when you’ve got ADHD.
In this class, we explore how to create happier, more connected relationships.

You’ll learn:

  •  How to use the Relationship Pyramid 🔺 to prioritise where your energy goes 
  •  What a “manual” is & how your unspoken expectations might be sabotaging your relationships
  •  How to create more connection
  • The one relationship that changes EVERYTHING

Priced at $67.00

Living in Alignment with your Values

Ever get that “something doesn’t sit right” feeling? That’s your values talking!

“Knowing your values is the ADHD life hack you didn’t know you needed.” 

This workshop will help you uncover your core values & explain why you do what you do & how to make decisions that actually feel right 

You’ll leave with clarity, confidence & a deeper understanding of yourself & the things that truly matter - so you can start living in a way that feels meaningful, not just “productive.”

 

Priced at $67.00

Managing RSD

If you’ve ever spiralled after a text that said “we need to talk,” replayed criticism on a loop, or felt crushed by even gentle feedback - You’re likely experiencing RSD - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, one of the most emotionally intense (and misunderstood) parts of ADHD.

In this empowering, science-backed workshop, you’ll learn what’s really happening in your brain and body when RSD hits and how to regulate, soothe & recover.

This isn’t about “toughening up”! It’s about understanding your beautiful, sensitive brain and giving it what it needs when the RSD hits.

Priced at $67.00

Beating Procrastination

If you’ve ever found yourself doing literally anything except the thing you’re supposed to do… this one’s for you!

 

We dig into what’s really behind ADHD procrastination (spoiler: it’s not laziness or lack of willpower). You’ll learn how emotions drive what we do (and what we don’t do!) .

 

We’ll explore why our ADHD brains crave comfort, how to work with your dopamine system & by the end, you’ll know how to stop waiting to “feel ready” & start taking action! 

Priced at $67.00

Managing & Increasing Dopamine

The holy grail for ADHD brains 🙌
We’ll unpack how dopamine actually works & why it affects everything from focus to motivation to mood.

You’ll learn that not all dopamine is created equal & chasing the wrong kind creates LESS of it! And how to boost this magical, good-feeling brain chemical in simple, easy, natural ways!

Priced at $67.00

Using Chat GPT & AI 

Discover how tools like ChatGPT can save mental energy, reduce overwhelm & help you get sh*t done - especially when executive function isn’t playing nice.

It's time to Make AI work for you! Including how to personalise it, teach it your preferences and get the most from it.

 

 Priced at $67.00

 

Total Value  =  $1500+

 

 

Total Value  =  $500 +

 

How to Feel Better 

A mini course & workbook. 

Emotional Regulation with EFT Tapping

How to use the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

ADHD Medication Guide & Tracker

A quick start guide to knowing what's working & what's not.

Stop treating yourself like an assh*le

Cultivating self-compassion with Rebecca Stark-Thornberry.

 

PLUS...

🎁  Hack your Happy Chemicals

 

🎁  My ADHD New Zealand Webinar Replays

 

🎁  Slow Dopamine Activities List 

 

🎁  Organising for the ADHD Home with Carrie Lagerstedt

 

+  Monthly Group Coaching Calls with Xena!! 

  

  

Total Value  =  $1500 +

 

Here's what ADHDers are saying...

Adulting with ADHD

Courses, coaching, workbooks & resources to help you achieve your goals & feel better than ever… all at a “Can’t Say No!” price!

$555

per year

 

  • Emotional Regulation for Adults with ADHD (usually $497)
  • WTF is ADHD - Understand & Work with your brain (usually $197)
  • How to coach yourself with ADHD (usually $297) 
  • How to Heal from & Prevent ADHD Burnout (usually $147)
  • Improving Relationships (usually $67)
  • Living in Alignment with your Values (usually $67)
  • Managing RSD - Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (usually $67)
  • Beating Procrastination (usually $67) 
  • Managing & Increasing Dopamine (usually $67)
  • Using ChatGPT & AI for ADHD support (usually $67)
  • Complete Library of Workbooks (valued at $500+)
  • BONUS:  How to feel better course (valued at $97)
  • BONUS:  Emotional Regulation with EFT Tapping (valued at $47)
  • BONUS:  ADHD Medication Tracker & Guide (valued at $27)
  • BONUS:  Organising for the ADHD Home  (valued at $67) 
  • BONUS:  Cultivating self-compassion  (valued at $147)  
  • BONUS:  Hack your Happy Chemicals 
  • BONUS:  ADHD New Zealand Webinar Replays
  • BONUS:  Slow Dopamine Activities List
  • BONUS: Private Facebook Community
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls with Xena (usually $1297) 

 

Total Value  =  $3500+ 

"The way Xena explains things, and how generously she shares her own experiences, makes everything feel both clear and deeply relatable. It’s exactly the kind of support I’ve been looking for.”

~ Alina, Jodan

"It’s not fluffy words. It’s usable strategies that have completely changed my life."

~ Ian, United States

"I’ve tried psychiatrists, psychologists, courses -you name it. But nothing stuck. With Xena, the tools actually stay in my brain and I use them every day. They’re practical, real, and they work."

~ Belinda, New Zealand

This is FOR you if: 

  • You can afford the membership without putting yourself in financial stress
  • You honour & respect boundaries
  • You commit to doing the work and taking fresponsibility for your own success

This is NOT for you if: 

  • You find it hard to even navigate a computer or the internet
  • You need 1:1 guidance
  • You are offended by the use of swear words

 

  • I've helped hundreds of adults with ADHD to build self-trust, emotional resilience & actual life skills (the stuff that’s way more useful than trigonometry!)
  • I am proudly neurodivergent - sparkly brain & all and I GET what it’s like to live in this brain every day
  • I make everything simple, doable & ADHD-friendly… with zero shame & lots of laughs

  • I’m a multi-certified coach + top podcast host who’s been teaching this stuff for years

  • I was featured in NZ’s ADHD documentary ADHD: Not Just Hyper because I’m obsessed with helping ADHDers thrive

  • ADHDers are my favourite people & I am o-b-s-e-s-s-e-d with our brains!